Even if near everybody who has been fortunate enough to fall in love has gone through one, a break up is never easy to cope with, but, if you’re not happy with your current situation, there’s still a chance for you, if you’re ready to learn how to win your ex back. Relationships need to be cared for constantly in order to be healthy.
Here are some very effective tactics that you can put to use immediately to get your ex back:
1. Stay strong. Nobody wants to have a needy person around so make sure you stay calm and cool, at least when your ex is around. In a perfect scenario, you should even agree with the break up (even if inside you feel like your heart has been ripped out of your chest and you have no other reason to live). By staying in control of your emotions you communicate several things:
- You are not as desperate to be with them. Maybe they are not that attractive as they thought they are if you are so cool about the break up. Maybe you were thinking to break up with them too. This will suddenly lower their self esteem and this impression of superiority is one of the reasons they’ve left you in the first place.
- You have options. Maybe you are a lot more valuable than your ex thought you are and maybe they did a wrong thing by leaving you.
2. Minimize contact. Cut off all communication if you can. No calling, emails, text messages and no IMs. This will prevent you from being needy and, maybe, depressed and insecure with your ex around while also helping you recover. But this is not going to be an easy task. You will probably miss her a lot, but, the good thing is that she is probably going to miss you too and this will set the stage for your next moves.
3. Get your life back. It’s the perfect time to make some phone calls and catch up with your friends which you’ve probably neglected lately. Have massive fun. Take your friends with you on that trip you always wanted and dreamed of and take lots and lots of Pictures for digital frames that you can upload on your profile if you are using sites like MySpace, Facebook, Hi5 or anything similar. If you’re using an instant messaging program (like MSN, Yahoo! etc.) set one of these Pictures for digital frames as your avatar and change it often. This will make your ex feel like you’re a lot better after they broke up with you and will make them feel like they were holding you back from having massive fun. When all these elements combine with the lack of attention from you, your ex will probably flip out, knowing that you are moving on a lot faster than they are. The pinnacle of all this is reached if you can add a little bit of jealousy to the formula. But be very careful with this, because if you do it wrong, it can really hurt your chances to get them back. I’m going to give you some sneaky techniques to stay “under the radar”, without pushing your ex too much and seek revenge (and you can accomplish that even if you’re not really dating someone else! This is very powerful).
4. Re-initiate contact. If your ex doesn’t contact you during this period of time, it’s ok to re-initiate contact with them after four weeks. Call them and have a light conversation without bringing up the relationship you had with them. Make sure you don’t brag about anything, for instance, about how many people you’re dating or sleeping with (that’s lame and only losers brag).
This should be enough to set the stage for your next moves (and the big meet-up).
But pay close attention here because this is where you can pretty much screw up everything you’ve accomplished. The tactics that I’m about to show you are very controversial… and I don’t know who exactly is going to get them, that’s why I only made them available on my website. Please, don’t use them for any kind of revenge. I’ve developed them for normal, loving people who made a mistake and want their ex back WITH GOOD INTENTIONS! What I’m about to show you makes use of a lot of dirty psychological tricks and conversational hypnosis, so it’s extremely powerful. Some people call this “Mind Control” so use it wisely.
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