Are scars from breast reduction surgery very unattractive?
I had breast reduction surgery a few years ago, and I still have some very visible scars. I’m so self-conscious about them that I have only let one person see me topless. I’m in my twenties and want to experiment with sex but I don’t know how to tell people. I’m worried it will make me very unattractive to the people I’m with. Also, is there a good way to tell people about them or is it okay to not say anything?
Even if you think your answer’s mean please post it.
Believe me your partner will not care,everyone has scars some bigger then others..But don’t let your scars ruin your life..
A lot of people in this section can be mean and vain and often times that means shallow too. Hell I get called fat by women and men in this section and I’m extremely thin. So they will give you cocky answers about how your scars are disgusting or unpleasant but I’ll give you honesty…they aren’t. A scar is a scar and anyone who tells you you are unattractive for it is a pig. You don’t have to tell anyone that you have scars on your breasts or under your breasts, they are your breasts! You deserve to feel beautiful and you don’t have to “warn” anyone of a minor imperfection. In fact most imperfections actually turn men on, it proves you are a real woman!
And you are grown like me, you’ll learn soon enough that most of the people who will answer your question in this section are catty, bratty, teenaged girls and boys who wouldn’t know real beauty if it hit them in the face.
Edit: I’ll let you in on something that will inspire you from my personal experience: When I was 15 I was in a horrific car accident and nearly died. My face was smashed open and my forehead was also slit to my eye all the way to my other eye. My nose was broken and I had deep lacerations all over my brow line. Even after plastic surgery I have remaining scars, and guess what? I’m the only one who notices them. My husband didn’t notice them until we had dated for 5 months and even then, he thought it made me more beautiful.
Don’t worry, scars don’t make anyone unattractive. A guy more than likely won’t care even if they are very visible, he’s just going to be glad that you’re topless. haha
Most people have some scars they are just part of who you are. If you really don’t like them look into plastic surgery to get rid of them.
This is the first thing you should do.
Many have had surgeries that were not performed well and they are left with visible scars. There have been many advances in the last few years so you can now undergo simple and not expensive surgery to make them invisible.
An excellent site to learn more is RealSelf.com.
You can post questions and often have several top notch plastic surgeon respond online telling you precisely what can be done and the typical costs in your area.
Some post questions accompanied by photographs to get better assessments.
You can also correspond directly with these surgeons.
Often, many others who contribute to RealSelf.com and have undergone surgical scar removal, will share their experiences and give you valuable advice.
Mukunda.
i had a breast reduction 9 months ago and you can barely see my scars.